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I recieved the following e-mail 10/05/2006 from a Sister in Christ in South Africa, please be in Prayer for Tienie and her husband.

I am a visitor from South Africa to your website.   Please pray for my
husband Dana his 5 year work contract as Municipal Manager end 18 0ct 2006
for guidance, wisdom and God's Will and Plans for his future.   May God
bless you!   Tienie


 

I just received the following letter from my Sister, please be in Prayer for their family, and if you can help them in any way, please do.

Dear Family and Friends,
 
You may wonder why I disappeared after adopting Caleb.  I've had 1 to 2 appointments nearly every weekday since arriving home, and my internet time has been limited.  Dave and I need your help.  Caleb was diagnosed with Severe Positional Plagiocephaly.  As you know we just adopted him, and he was diagnosed a week after we returned from Guatemala.  We were then referred to a specialist, and it has taken me many hours of fighting to get his appointments.  I spent countless hours trying to get authorizations and such to go through.  We finally saw the specialist who could help Caleb this week, and Tricare, our insurance, will NOT cover the treatment.  We could use your help in spreading the word that we are in need of prayers and monitary donations.  This week alone we spent 21 hours on the road and in appointments.  7 hours each day.  The price of gas, the cost of Caleb's needed treatment, and expenses are adding up quickly.  Many more appointments are ahead, which mean more hours on the road.  If you can help spread the word about our plight, please do.  Dave is in the middle of a second year long tour in Iraq, and has never even seen our son yet.  Caleb is the sweetest, happiest, smartest baby on this earth, and he deserves a good start in life. 
 
Please remember us in your prayers, and if you can spread the word about Caleb's web site and his needs, please do.  Donations can be sent via paypal to unitedwestand@mchsi.com
 

 


Update on Austin and Ethan Hale

Bond of brothers

WRECK SHOWS BOYS HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO EACH OTHER

By Cassondra Kirby

HERALD-LEADER STAFF WRITER

RUSSELL SPRINGS - Ethan Hale tucked his younger brother under his arm, and extended a loose fist to
the 10-year-old boy for walking support. Austin Hale, almost a full head and shoulders shorter than Ethan,
looked up at his "bubby" and grinned, his freckles nearly disappearing into his cheeks.
It didn't matter that they were walking down a Russell County High School hallway. Or that Ethan's friends
might see him hanging out with his nerdy little brother. Two months after a head-on ATV-dirt bike
crash nearly killed them both, the boys say they now realize how important they are to each other.

The physical scars are still visible across Ethan's head, under a patch where his left eye once was and in
Austin's off-balance struggle to walk. What doesn't show, Ethan says, is the deep bond the crash has
created between the brothers.

"I feel like God shut one eye but opened the other," Ethan said last week while sitting at a table in the high
school. "This all happened for a reason. To be honest, I have not been living my life like I should."

For the Hale boys, life changed before they could scream. There wasn't even time to swerve as Ethan, 15,
and his all-terrain vehicle came speeding from the opposite side of a curve toward Austin, who was driving
an RX80 dirt bike.

The impact tangled the two machines, shattered nearly every bone in Ethan's face -- completely crushing
his nose and chin and cracking his forehead and jaws -- and left Austin with a serious brain injury.

Ethan was able to get up from the crash and drag himself to their mother's home just down the road.
Austin lay unconscious in a ditch.

Rhonda Hale, the boys' mother and an elementary school teacher in Russell County, was sitting in the living
room when Ethan came limping into the kitchen on Nov. 20.

"God, I need help," she heard him whisper. Ethan's face was swollen to the size of a volleyball and covered
in blood. His throat was already beginning to swell shut.

"Austin, road," was all he could say, Rhonda said. Still, he managed to lead her to his brother, who still lay
face-down in the ditch.

Both boys were taken by ambulance to Russell County Hospital, where they were stabilized and then flown
to the University of Kentucky Chandler Medical Center.

Two waiting rooms filled as more than 150 people gathered at the hospital and waited for news.

"Every report we got for some time started with, 'If they live through it,'" said Russell County High School
Assistant Principal Keith Ellis, one of the first visitors to arrive at the hospital. "But the whole community (of
Russell Springs) was in prayer for them. Every church, every individual. I think the doctors were even
surprised at the healing that took place."

In a series of surgeries, doctors pieced Ethan's jaw back together and inserted a metal plate in the roof of
his mouth in place of a broken palate. They couldn't save his left eye and had to remove it.

Back at school

Ethan was released from the hospital first. He is back at Russell County High School for half days. The
freshman hopes to begin full school days soon.

And he plans to make it his mission to educate others about the importance of wearing a helmet when
riding four-wheelers, motorcycles or bikes. Both Austin and Ethan were wearing helmets when they
crashed; otherwise they would probably be dead, said Russell County Sheriff's Deputy David Cain, who
responded to the crash.

Austin, who was unconscious for several days when he first arrived at UK, broke vertebrae, damaged his
jaw and broke his left arm. Most alarming was the blow to his head.

When Austin finally opened his eyes, he couldn't talk and he didn't seem to recognize anyone. He was
transferred to Cardinal Hill Rehabilitation Hospital in Lexington, where he spent nine weeks in the brain
injury unit.

Therapists worked to help him become self-sufficient again, teaching him to brush his teeth and tie his
shoes. But the injury to his head has severely affected his balance. He has trouble walking, as he sways and
bobs and tries not to fall. It's too early to tell whether his balance problems are permanent.

After getting out of the hospital, Ethan stayed with his grandparents and attended school during the week.
He spent weekends with his brother at Cardinal Hill. The boys' mother moved into a hospital bed beside
Austin's.

"This accident has brought us all closer together," Rhonda said. "The very reason I'm alive is these boys,
and they were almost taken from me."

In the UK and Cardinal Hill hospital rooms -- decorated with photos of the boys and "get well" cards --
Ethan began to tell his brother how much he means to him. At first, he worried that Austin couldn't hear or
understand him.

"I was afraid for his future and that he may never know me again. I could hardly stand it," Ethan said.

Ethan remembered times before the accident when he was annoyed with Austin for wanting to tag along
with him, and times when his patience with his bouncy little brother wore thin.

Slowly, Austin became more alert. First his eyes started following Ethan around the hospital room.

"I would tell him, 'bubby's here, bubby loves you,' and he would grin," Ethan said.

Finally, Austin began talking

"The first thing Austin said to me when he started talking was, 'Bubby, I saw Jesus in the helicopter.' My
heart just about stopped," Ethan said. "I said, 'What did he look like?' His eyes got big, and he said, 'He
was beautiful.'"

Ethan said his brother described to him how Jesus, surrounded by a bright light, had held out his hand, but
Austin said there wasn't enough time to take it.

"I'm glad he didn't take Jesus' hand," said Ethan, who had prayed for God to take himself instead of his
baby brother after the crash. "I just don't think I could live with that."

Brothers just talk

Austin was released from Cardinal Hill last week. The boys have already attended a basketball game
together and Ethan has spent more time just talking to his brother at home.

"Before, like at a basketball game, he would act like a 10-year-old and I would be embarrassed to take him.
But now I'm not," Ethan said.

Ethan, who knows Austin's road to recovery could be a long, frustrating one, admires his brother for not
letting his injury bring him down. Austin is full of laughs: He jokes with his therapist about chest hair,
lifting up his shirt to show off his hair-free chest. He asks when he can play baseball, his favorite sport.

"Not for a while," says his physical therapist, Kerry Harris, patting Austin on the head.

Moments like that bother Ethan the most. He says he can't help but feel some blame, even though he
realizes there's nothing he could have done to prevent the November collision.

In the tightly woven community of Russell Springs -- where signs have welcomed the boys home -- Ethan
is nothing less than a hero for bringing help to his brother that day.

"I don't know how he got to the house," said Ellis, who also attends church with the Hale family. "In times
of trauma, you hear about people doing things that are heroic ... It's unbelievable that he did that, that he
could even function in that situation."

Still, Ethan frets that he let his little brother down.

"I feel like Austin looked up to me," Ethan said. "No matter what happens, I believe he trusts me to handle
the situation. I know there wasn't enough time to do anything, but it's still hard. I feel like I let him down,
you know?"

Ethan said he'll spend the rest of his life making up for it.

Just as the two walk down the Russell County High School hallway, leaning on each other -- that's the way
they plan to walk through life.

"Together," Ethan said.

Original Prayer request that I received on 12/13/2005

We have had a horrible tragedy within our school. A teacher that works at Jamestown Elementary, Rhonda Hale, currently has two sons fighting for their lives at a hospital in Lexington, KY. The two boys were riding their ATVs after church on Sunday. Austin, a 10 year old was on a dirt bike, and Ethan, a 16 year old, was on a 4-wheeler. The two boys collided with one another head-on. They WERE wearing helmets but the injuries sustained were still massive. They were flown to UK Children's Hospital where teams of doctors began working on them immediately. Ethan has broken every bone in his face and has lost his left eye. The first of many surgeries was done to begin repairing the damage. He is nothing but metal from the chin up. Currently, fluid is gathering at the back of his brain and more surgery is going to need to be done to remove it. Austin has yet to regain conscienceness. He has been unresponsive since the accident and doctors are saying that it is a miracle that he even made it to the hospital. A shunt has been placed in his head to reduce fluid and swelling. He has multiple injuries including 2 crushed vertebrae, broken limbs and a pelvis that is broken in half, which cannot be operated on until more is known about his head injuries. Both boys are on feeding tubes and have developed fevers. As you can imagine Rhonda's world has been shattered. Her boys are all she has left and she is devastated, as any mother would be. She has requested that any willing person please pray for her sons. The school is also requesting that cards be sent to the boys. We are trying to get cards sent from all over the country so that the boys, as well as Rhonda, have something to look forward to daily. The cards are going to be kept and counted so that Austin, Ethan and Rhonda can see just how many people have been praying for them. If you could, please send a card to the address below and then forward this e-mail to anyone and everyone you know. At this time, prayer is the best medicine for these youths.

Thanks,
Nicki

***UPDATE***

Austin and Ethan Hale were in the UK children's hospital in Lexington, Kentucky. Austin is now in Cardinal Hill Rehab Hospital, (address is below to send cards to Austin). I spoke with both hospitals, and they told me that Austin was in the rehab hospital and Ethan had been released and was at home, Praise God! I also did a little looking on the web and found a news article about the boys and what happened, see link below. This actually happened before Thanksgiving. Here is the link to the article;
http://www.kentucky.com/mld/kentucky/news/local/13248215.htm
and here is the address to send cards and well wishes to. I think mom could use a cheery card too, as a mother myself, I know I would be beside myself and half crazy.


Austin Hale
c/o Cardinal Hill Rehab Hospital
2050 Versailles Road
Lexington 40504


Let's all send Austin and Ethan encouraging words and Prayers, and something special for their mom too!

I received the following Prayer rquest on 02/08/2006
 
Please pray for my husband Peter who was laid off from his job.  He needs to find another job soon.  We know God is in control and it is in His timing.  Also, please pray for our grandson Chad.  He is our daughter's son and we have had custody of him since he was born.  That has been 10 yrs.  His biological dad keeps threatening to take him away from us.  While Chad enjoys going to his dad's, he doesn't want to live there.  SC laws are not granparent friendly.  We can raise kids for X amount of yrs. but we have no rights, if a biological parent wants the child.  I know that this too is in God's hands and Chad loves Jesus.  So far God has been gracious to us.  Thank you for your prayers.  I am praying for the Hale boys.  My God is bigger than any Dr.  I know that Austin will get threw all of this too,  Thanks.  Terri Farkas
 
 
 
This page is for Prayer request. If you have a Prayer request, please send it to us at, mailto:carmellasplace@thegourdreserve.com and we will add your request to this page.
 
God Bless you all,
Carmella
 

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